Instant Family does what no other Hollywood comedy has done for what feels like a long time, and that is make a heartfelt, insightful comedy about the world of adoption and what the definition of family really comes down to. Now we all know that family is a big word, and ultimately means different things to different people, communities and groups in society as well as various cultures in the world. The definition of family in this American feature film, released on the 10th of January 2019 in Australia, proves to be something quite different to what we are currently shown in mainstream cinemas today.
The difference here is that the audience’s perception of family is challenged. In a scene around the dinner table, common stereotypes are brought up amongst family members when Pete (Mark Wahlberg) and Ellie (Rose Byrne) bring up that they are looking into adoption. This scene opens up a discussion on what family is expected to be versus what it can be. A few of the comments that are touched on in this scene include the fostered kid(s) not being their own, not their own blood as well as a high likelihood of a background in crime as well as the general public making comments towards them because of these factors. The film goes on to touch on some really big themes, all handled in a sensitive and delicate manner, making for a genuinely surprising and refreshing treat for the audience. Whilst not entirely expected from an upbeat looking film, perhaps this element works in favour for Instant Family in the sense that you don’t quite know the depth of what it is you are in for.
Speaking of depth, this film explores a number of meaningful topics, all the while dissecting the lives of Pete and Ellie in a multitude of ways. It’s not as simple as fostering children and everything falling into place for Pete and Ellie. It’s not so much things coming easily as opposed to building and working on things together. The film also goes through the many stages involved with looking after foster children and even shows the audience what the ‘honeymoon phase’ looks like, much to the amusement of the foster care support group evidently aware of the rollercoaster ride ahead. The chemistry between Wahlberg and Byrne is undeniable. From the bickering at the support group gathering to kissing in front of the foster children as they exclaim “Ew!” it is obvious that these two are a good match on screen. The combination of Wahlberg and Byrne make this adventure a hell of a lot more entertaining because of the way they interact with one another and their unique dynamic.
The interaction between Pete and Ellie, and the three kids they are instantly thrown into a family with, is entertaining to say the least. Lizzy (Isabela Moner), Juan (Gustavo Quiroz) and Lita (Julianna Gamiz) are hands down adorable, there’s no escaping that, but the trouble that ensues with these three foster siblings combined is another story altogether. From Lita and her frequent tantrums to Lizzy and her moody and rebellious nature to a nail gun accident involving Juan, it goes to show that real life is far from perfect. But real life can be rewarding too. When everything finally seems settled and Pete and Ellie, after some encouragement from Lita with her hilarious “you’re overthinking this”, go to kiss the kids goodnight, it all turns upside down when the siblings are put in contact with their recovering mother and Lizzy pushes for them to reunite.
Can these three kids really be a part of Pete and Ellie’s family, a part of their world? Many questions linger with this film, but a sweet ending answers at least one of them. That family is family no matter what. Of course, the film would be at a loss without its fantastic and witty supporting characters Karen (Octavia Spencer) and Sharon (Tig Notaro) that run the program for parents looking into foster care and adoption. If it weren’t for their wit, humour and comedic breaks the film wouldn’t have that extra touch that makes it what it is. Where the drama delivers, so does the comedy and it comes from all sources. Instant Family truly defines the ‘good for all ages’ category and welcomes viewers of all backgrounds and walks of life. Well worth a watch and moving to the point where you may question your perception of what it really means to be a family, Instant Family does wonders.
Australian Cinema Release Date January 10th, 2019
Joanna Letic